The Enneagram and Communication

Compiled by Christie Love

We have created a training platform that will help you learn to communicate better as your Enneagram type and help you better understand the way that other Enneagram types in your life communicate. This is a collection of some of our favorite resources by Enneagram professionals.

Trauma Training Takeaway: Researchers have found that, “After experiencing traumatic situations, many people find their relationships with others are affected. It is common for the overwhelming circumstances of traumatic events to influence one’s interactions with friends, family, coworkers, and others. While these reactions are unique to each person and are related to their particular experience of trauma, most people share some typical responses to what has happened to them. Traumatic events deeply challenge people’s sense of safety and security in the world. Their confidence in the future may be shaken, the way they understand the meaning of life may be changed, and the way they think and feel about themselves may be different. Relationships can reflect these feelings in a variety of ways.” (1)

The Enneagram can be a helpful tool to support those who have experienced traumas and those that they are engaged in relationship with have a better understanding of nuances and complexities of communication, trust, and intimacy in relationships after stressful events.

(1) Trauma and relationships. Accessed April 26, 2024. https://istss.org/ISTSS_Main/media/Documents/ISTSS_TraumaAndRelationships_FNL.pdf.